2021.12.03 04:54 kitanohara How do you make it enjoyable?
I [24M] don't enjoy all this - I'm unsuccessful in trying to get dates, and when I do, I'm unsuccessful in progressing further, and it feels like an uphill grind. The main reason why I keep trying to get women at all is that it motivates me to sharpen my social skills which transfers outside dating. But I don't enjoy trying to be funny, trying to impress people, trying to stand out or signal my value.
I have an experience which makes it even more unsatisfying. At times when I am actually successful (e.g. when I have a good date), I've done so much work by then that it feels like 100% my own achievement, as if the other person didn't even co-create the experience, because they just followed their programming. It feels like winning a one-player game and it's pretty mechanistic and hollow and self-absorbed, as if I'm tediously hacking into a computer system with a bunch of tricks and then finally it yields at some point.
Now I'm not talking here about falling in love with the other person. I'm aromantic-leaning so I'm more in it for FWBs, preferably with a capital F. It's more about being human or being real with each other, or feeling like the experience that you co-create somewhat matters for both of you, or feeling grateful.
After I've been rejected and disposed of so many times, the part of girl's psyche I'm used to is the gatekeeper. Yes I realize it's a small part and there's so much more, and no one can change their gatekeeper or turn it off. But because I'm so used to facing it, I go on only facing the gatekeeper even when it turns away and ignore everything else - so it's really hard to make a connection sometimes.
This is so unpleasant that it pushes me away from trying to get girls altogether. I don't have this at all in other parts of my life, when I'm making friends for example. Now I've had a few FWBs in my life and this certainly gets better the more time you spend together with a particular girl. But the first few times you meet it's not as fun as it could be for the above reasons. I wonder if anyone can relate and how have you dealt with this.
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2021.12.03 04:54 circlefromdot Begging Motions of Little Bastard🐭 in Our Upcoming Top-down Shooter
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2021.12.03 04:54 andre_shreves new vlog episode
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2021.12.03 04:54 kkingfisherr Hackers have managed to steal $120M worth crypto from DeFi protocol BadgerDAO
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2021.12.03 04:54 iDuskk If this whole "accept X deliveries to see address" thing hits my market...
I'm pretty much done with Ubereats. So rather then stop using the app, I'm going to continue using Doordash and Grubhub like normal. But I'm going to accept every uber order I get and just let it auto time out purely out of spite/protest.
"When drivers don't accept orders it leads to long wait times!" well good job Uber, now customers and restaurants are both gonna have VERY long wait times. Deactivate me, I'll make a new account and do it all over again I do not give a single fuck, this is the absolute most bullshit thing I've ever seen from any company ever.
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2021.12.03 04:54 Odin_69 FF14 anime style advertisements, fan made AMV edit. I'm still in awe at how good these are.
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2021.12.03 04:54 m0tifv "Asako I & II (2019)", dir. Ryusuke Hamaguchi x "So Hot You're Hurting My Feelings", Caroline Polachek
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2021.12.03 04:54 imRenilla Not going potty at day care (4F)
Not sure if I bring this up to the day care or if this is on my daughters responsibility to go herself.
She goes to a small centre preschool, there are 2 educators to about 7 preschool aged kids. The past 2 days, she has gone there for 8 hours and each day she has not gone potty once whilst there. She has been at this day care for 2 months and is the first and only care she has been in as I have been a stay at home mom prior to this.
The first week we sent her she had not gone potty at all with them, and we brought this up to the director who assured us that they would devise a plan to make sure she goes toilet throughout the day. Since then she has gone potty there, but there has been a staff turn around and has new educators who I don’t even know their names nor has my daughter.
So this week she has not gone potty at all at school and I’m wondering if I should contact the school about this again or if is out of their control.
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2021.12.03 04:54 prpking Omicron scare: 21 Russia returnees go untested in Kerala
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2021.12.03 04:54 Stand-on-Toilet Landmine Personality Yuri - by @rundoll2 on Twitter
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2021.12.03 04:54 ObModder William Shih-Chieh Hung (1928-2011) - Reading
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2021.12.03 04:54 przecin Traversing desert around Al Ain (close to Al Wiqan)
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2021.12.03 04:54 SearchNo4467 So horny Any kind of tribute big or small doesn’t matter send to kik: Pan..90
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2021.12.03 04:54 OmniverousRex I feel like a 'kid' again, that feeling I can't describe and haven't felt for a long time, I think I've made it.
You know that feeling when you were a child? Everything is fresh, you are curious, no damage, you, you feel nimble? There's this curiosity for life, and to learn type of feeling?
I've got that back again, this is what I did and I want to share it to anyone who feels as though it would be beneficial to them.
These are the habits that I have picked up along the way and I think you'd like to emulate them, if not at least give it a go for a week or two.
2021.12.03 04:54 shmuggz cries in png
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2021.12.03 04:54 AnEmissaryFromHell 3Head OpieOP FUNgineer
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